grassrhyme

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giveEgnie the rule and give why there is the rulerNo, you are not supposed to touch or try the plug, it is gonna hurt youThis inductive rule is more effective and also works for adults

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use parentesedon't use praises such as "you are so smart":you are so clever, i am so proud of you:use "you must have learned really hard, i am so proud of you"delayed gratification could predict children's academic achievementwhen children experience something that make them feel sad, show empathy, "oh, i am so sorry, you must feel really awful' and let him cry in your armschildren could sense if you and your spouse are in a good relationship

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Have lots of friends, so that children could be more happlyNo toys or artificial tools could make your kid smarter, proved randomized doubleblind tests.

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Executive function, delayed gratification 

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babiesbabyish could imitate activities that they are exposed to only once.Deferred imitationExposé them oas stimulus-rich enrivonment

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Punishment1. Firm2. Imediate3. Reliable4. Safe5. Tolerant 

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让规矩有效capClarity, 写出来,简洁,醒目,贴在房间里Accepting 让孩子觉得可以接受Praise 

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孩子发脾气时That must feel awful. I know you are unhappy. If I were you, I will feel bad too. I am so sorry 

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Don't tether your kids achievement to intelligenceYou must have studied very hard, I am so proud of you

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Kids start lying from age 3Lying is not bad, it is a sign a development in predicting gauging others thought